Sawubona, Temple and In Medias Res – My Three Words for 2014

2012-11-22 16.20.30Another year has come and is on its way out the door.  As I sit here, on the last day of the year, reflecting on this past year I can’t help but feel lucky to be here! There have been lots of exciting things that have happened this year (both personally and professionally) and lots of scary, painful things as well (like breaking my collarbone and getting into a fairly serious motorcycle accident).  I’m also really excited for the future as my wife and I are expecting another child very early on in the year!

As I’ve mentioned before on this blog, I don’t do New Year’s resolutions.  Rather, I picked up the habit of choosing three words for the year to provide myself with focus on the year ahead (for more on this take a look at Chris Brogan’s blog and C.C. Chapman’s blog and book).  As I look back on last year’s three words I feel that I did alright with them.  As this coming year starts, I’m not ready to lose focus on those words either though as I feel they will still provide me with a lot of focus and fuel for the coming year.

As I continue to work on last years words and take them with me on my journey, here’s my three words that I’ll be adding to that for 2014:

Sawubona

Sawubona actually comes from Zulu dialect and literally translates as “I see you.” It’s typically meant as a greeting like, “good morning!” or “hello!” but I feel that it’s much more powerful than a simple greeting that toss around.  To me, it’s a matter of being fully present.  Often times, we’ll say “good morning” to someone as we walk by and not even break our stride to hear the response.  For me, when I hear the word sawubona, I can’t help but think of a greeting that says, “I’m genuinely interested in you and what you want to chat about.”  It’s not a word that can be said without breaking a stride.  This year, I’ll be focussing on being present for more conversations.  Clearing distractions and giving the other person my full, complete attnetion.

Temple

One of the things that I’ve realized over the past few years is that the better I’m doing, the better my business is doing.  Especially in the line of work where you are your business, it’s essential for you to be taking care of yourself.  So with that, I’m planning on spending more time reading and writing, focussing on fitness and health, and creating a lifestyle that enables me (and my family) to grow and expand.

In Medias Res

I guess I kind of cheated with this one…it’s “technically” 3 words, but I like to think of it as one word/phrase!  It’s a Latin phrase that means, “In the midst of things.”  I first learned of it through my university english classes and it’s all about starting a story in the middle of the action.  Something that ropes people in to the story right away and then builds the characters and scene afterwards.  So why this phrase? For me it’s going to serve as a reminder that we are all in the middle of our stories.  There’s a backstory to everything and there is a future.  It will serve as a reminder to learn from the past, focus on the present and plan for the future.

To all of you that are reading this and especially those who are active readers of this site, I just want to thank you for all your awesome in this past year and wish you and your families wonderful blessings in this coming year!

Now it’s your turn! Are you focussing on a few words for this coming year? If you are share them with me and this community in the comments below! If you’re not, let me know what you’re looking forward to this year!

 

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  • http://www.cc-chapman.com/ C.C. Chapman

    Now there are three INTERESTING words.

    I loved that when you commented on my post I had to click through since I didn’t have a clue what two of the words were :)

    I’m glad I’ve had a part in helping to inspire you to share these. I think posts like this make the world a better place.

    Best of luck and happy new year.

    • http://www.jasondyk.com/ Jason Dykstra

      Thanks for all you do C.C.!

  • http://www.collaborativejourneys.com Ben Ziegler

    Great choice of words, Jason. At first I saw the word ‘temple’ and thought Temple Grandin (don’t ask). Obviously wrong on that front. :) And In Media Ras is a really smart take on our life journeys. Keep up your excellent work and I look forward to seeing where 2014 takes you. Happy New Year. Cheers, Ben

    • http://www.jasondyk.com/ Jason Dykstra

      Ha…yes, a little different then Temple Grandin :-) Looking forward to connecting in the 2014!

  • http://stevenwb.postach.io/ swbuehler

    Added to my list and posted my own. :-) http://swbuehler.us

    These are awesome.

    • http://www.jasondyk.com/ Jason Dykstra

      Thanks Steven, I like the way you have yours laid out into different posts!

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  • http://www.theworld4realz.com/ Andi-Roo

    My three words: Follow-through, Manchu, Sing.

    I knew the last two words (although I assumed a more spiritual connotation for the term temple), but not the first. Following this topic from blog-to-blog has really been education for me!

    I mentioned & linked back to you in my own post on this topic: http://www.theworld4realz.com/three-words-2014-part-1-mythreewords/

    • http://www.jasondyk.com/ Jason Dykstra

      Temple definitely has many spiritual aspects, and I specifically picked the word because of it, but I also think it’s more then just the spiritual part, it’s more holistic then that. Thanks for sharing your words and for the link in the post!

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